Expectations.

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Expectations have been on my mind these past couple of days.I have come to the conclusion that maybe my expectations are too high. My friends refer to me as an “insanely loyal person” and with that loyalty I also have the uncanny ability to care about people instantly. With these two qualities I tend to feel dissapointment and hurt alot because other people don’t care the way I think they should. Is it me, am I expecting to much from others? Do I need to learn to appreciate people for who they are? Or do I not have people of value in my life?

I follow pretty simple rules when it comes to relationshis of any kind..

1.  Treat others the way you wish to be treated

2. Trust is given immediately but can be taken away just as quickly and damn near impossible to earn back

3. Honesty, Honesty, Honesty

4. Laugh and have fun

I don’t feel like I ask for a lot when it comes to my relationships but I still find myself expecting and wanting more. Is it time to adjust the way I see things? I want to appreciate what I have and stop expecting so much, I am not going to change people so its time to learn to love them for who they are.

 

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